Be Seen. Be Known. Be Chosen

What every hardware store needs to know about modern visibility, customer trust, and future growth.

My name is Stefanie Couch, and I grew up in a hardware store and retail lumberyard. In 1963, my grandfather opened a yard near the airport in Atlanta, Georgia. That one decision shaped our family and everything I’ve come to understand about service, reputation, and the power of being found.

As a little girl, I rang up customers, stocked shelves, and drove forklifts around the yard. I loved it. The sound of forklifts in motion. The rows of neatly stacked hardware. The satisfaction of solving a problem and earning trust. That was our everyday. But over time, one thing has become painfully clear.

Most hardware stores today are invisible to their best potential customers.

After college, I returned full-time to help manage the store with my dad. In 2012, I joined a Fortune 500 building materials distributor and helped launch their door division. I spent a decade there leading sales and marketing, opening greenfield facilities, and scaling the business.

Today, I run Grit Blueprint, a company that helps hardware and building materials businesses become impossible to ignore. We work with independent retailers, distributors, and manufacturers across the United States and internationally.

I’ve spoken at the National Hardware Show and work with organisations like the National Glass Association. We partner with groups like Do it Best and True Value, helping everyone from legacy independents to enterprise brands build visibility and trust.

No matter the size or market, the pattern is the same. Excellent businesses. Deep expertise. Total commitment to service. Still hidden in plain sight.

Why Most Hardware Stores Stay Invisible
Many hardware stores rely on reputation and foot traffic. They post occasionally on social media. They wait for people to walk in. They assume word of mouth is still enough. It isn’t. Customer behaviour has changed. People expect faster service, smarter answers, and more ways to connect. Research from Hubspot shows that if you respond to a lead within five minutes, you are 21 times more likely to convert it. If you wait 30 minutes, you are 100 times less likely to connect at all. Most businesses are waiting hours to react.

Some never respond at all. This is not because they don’t care. It’s because they’re overwhelmed, understaffed, and still relying on old systems in a new world. You already have the knowledge. You already have the team. What’s missing is visibility and systems for automation.

The 3 Steps to Becoming Unmistakable
I call this my GRIT Visibility Framework. It is a simple, practical system to help businesses stand out, earn trust, and grow. Each step builds on what you already do well.

Step 1: Be Seen
Show up where your customers are already looking. That includes both physical and digital spaces. Customers are searching Google late at night. They’re watching how-to videos on YouTube. They’re asking for recommendations in Facebook groups. If your store isn’t visible in those places, someone else will be.

Step 2: Be Known
Build consistent brand recognition. Why should someone choose your store over a big box retailer? What makes your team different? What do you know that others don’t? When your message is clear and repeated, people remember you when it matters most.

Step 3: Be Chosen
Turn visibility into reference. People choose the business that helps them before the sale, not just during it. Get noticed, then get picked. This is where reputation, responsiveness, and trust become your biggest competitive edge. Show up early.

Earn trust. Be the one they remember.

This framework does not add complexity. It adds clarity. It’s not about changing what you do. It’s about showing more people why it matters.

What It Looks Like in Action
Let me give you a real-world example. We worked with a twelve-store hardware chain in Boise, Idaho. They were missing a lot of phone calls. Not because they didn’t care, but because staff were helping customers at the counter and couldn’t get to the phone in time.

We installed something called an AI voice agent. It’s a virtual assistant that answers the phone for you. Not a robotic call centre voice, but a smart system that sounds natural and is trained to speak like your team.

If someone calls asking how to plant grass or what fertilizer to use, the AI voice agent answers right away, understands the question, and sends a helpful follow-up by text or email with detailed instructions or product links.

It also works through their website chatbot and text messages. It is fully trained on their store’s real inventory, services, and policies. This one tool now supports all twelve stores. It never misses a call. It never forgets a detail. It never takes a day off. And it means your in-store staff are no longer forced to choose between helping the customer in front of them or racing to answer a ringing phone.

This Is Not About Replacing People
AI tools like this are not here to take away jobs. They are here to protect the customer experience and make life easier for your team.

Think of it like adding a forklift or computer system. You are not removing the human touch. You are removing the friction. An AI voice agent is like adding another reliable team member who handles all the calls and answers common questions. That frees up your real staff to do what they do best. Solve problems. Serve people. Build relationships.

It costs far less than hiring someone new. It never gets tired. It ensures that every customer who calls your store receives a helpful response, even when your team is busy assisting someone else.

This is not about automation taking over. It is about making sure your human strengths actually shine.

Where to Start: Ask Your Customers
The easiest first step? Ask. Talk to your customers. Ask how they found you. Ask where they spend time. Ask if they follow any stores on Facebook or YouTube. Ask if they’d like to get updates by text or watch how-to videos instead of reading instructions.

Even a casual conversation at checkout can give you the answers.

Let’s say someone comes in asking how to replace a toilet flange. You record a quick tutorial and upload it to YouTube. Then you post it on your website and share it on social media.

Next time someone calls and asks that same question, your AI voice agent or chatbot replies with, “We have a great step-by-step video. Want the link?”

You are no longer just selling a wax ring. You’re helping someone get the job done right. That builds loyalty and trust.

According to Noble Desktop, more than 60% of shoppers say YouTube helps them decide what to buy. This is how people make decisions today.

Be Unmistakable
This is what it means to Be Unmistakable. To be the hardware store people talk about. To be the one they remember. To be the one they trust to help solve the next problem. You do not need a perfect strategy to get started. You just need to start showing up. People don’t expect flawless videos or perfect websites. But they do expect to find you when they search. They expect someone to answer. They expect to be helped.

Being invisible is worse than being imperfect.

The Future Belongs to the Visible
The hardware and building materials industry is positioned for growth, with strong trends projected through 2026 and beyond. The stores that begin building visibility now will be the ones that capture
that growth.

The fundamentals haven’t changed. People still want help. They still value knowledge. They still want to do business with people they trust.

What has changed is where they look. How they search. What they expect when they reach out.

Some call it phygital marketing. It’s the combination of physical expertise with digital reach. The hands-on knowledge, the in-person relationships, the trust you’ve built over decades, all supported by tools that help more people find you faster.

Your reputation means nothing if no one can find you. But when you are seen, known, and chosen, your expertise becomes your greatest competitive advantage.

The tools exist. The framework works. The opportunity is right in front of you.

I’m excited to work with Hardware Association Ireland to help members bridge the gap between traditional excellence and modern visibility.

Because the future belongs to the hardware stores that are impossible to ignore.

stefanie@gritblueprint.com

Stefanie Couch is the founder of Grit Blueprint, www.gritblueprint.com, a growth and visibility firm helping hardware and building materials companies grow through modern marketing, clear messaging, and AIpowered tools. A former Fortune 500 sales and marketing leader, Stefanie combines deep industry experience with bold strategy to help businesses get seen, get known, and get chosen. She grew up in a family-owned hardware store and now partners with groups like Do it Best and the National Glass Association. Stefanie regularly speaks at industry events, including the National Hardware Show, on the future of business growth in legacy industries.